My boyfriend, Brad, is a college president so we live in the President’s House which is surrounded by a gigundo backyard. In this very lush space, there is a peony forest, apple trees, fig trees and magnolia trees. The big trees begin me are osage orange trees. And there is this magical, secret garden that a former president must have created. It is almost like a maze with two holly trees in each section and this stone bench. Outer, inner, and secret is a Buddhist structure for teachings. In yoga, it would be like saying, body, breath, mind or OMMMMMMMMMM.